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How to get engaged!   Things to consider when getting engaged! Ways To pop the question! Ways to get engaged!

12/19/2020

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So you already have the ring or maybe you don't (we can help with that) and are looking for ideas. There are an infinite number of ways to ask someone to marry you.  There are also an infinite number of things to consider as well.  Don't worry there is no wrong way to do it and we put together a few tips, and things to think about when you go for it!
Here is a short list of things to consider
  • privately or publicly: Would your future spouse prefer to be asked in a public setting or something more private
  • select the location: maybe you are a planner and want to know when, how, and all of the details of the day; maybe you just want to feel the moment; there's no wrong answer just know what is best for you
  • readiness evaluation: is your future spouse ready to make this monumental move, have you discussed it have you considered the future
  • hire a photographer: do you want to capture the moment or keep it private
  • with family and or friends: .Would your spouse prefer it to occur with or without family and friends and/or would they prefer to see them immediately afterwards
  • a grand gesture/ something subtle: would they prefer a grand gesture or something more low key
  • time of day: this is a tricky one and may require some thought.  Some times a night engagement is the right one and sometimes a morning or midday makes sense (consider photos, consider plans etc)
  • weather/ time of year: this can play an important role.  a rainy day could make for the perfect engagement and so could a sunny day.  A cold day or a hot day there really is no wrong answer as long as thought is put into it
  • a holiday or not: some dream of Christmas day engagement others at Holi each and every couple is different just know if you are engaged at a traditional holiday the ring may be actually considered a gift
  • talking to their family; some take this as a serious task some not so much; consider discussing the engagement or asking for a hand in marriage from a family member- just keep in mind once the secret is out...its out; so carefully make this decision and at the right time!
  • saying the right things: having a general idea, or even knowing exactly what you'd like to say at the time is important
Other things to consider:
- how you'll announce you're engaged
- how you'll celebrate it
- what you will do next as a couple
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